Category: Monthly Meetings

Communal Communication

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We had an amazing year of programming at Death Party Philadelphia in 2018, with our monthly meetings covering diverse topics that span the death positivity community. We’ve discussed Death and Disability, Compassion Fatigue, Cemetery Semiotics, Human Taxidermy with tattooed skin, Dying (legislation) in Pennsylvania and even a screening of the feature documentary The Nurse with the Purple Hair (with exclusive introduction by iconic director Sean S. Cunningham and a Q&A with the film’s subject Michelle Lasota) and we still have one more Death Party Party of the year!

On Sunday, December 16th we’ll be meeting at our regular spot to bid farewell to 2018 with our annual holiday party and Secret Skeleton gift exchange- but that’s not all! We’ll be discussing 2019 programming and we’d love to round table topics and presenters for next year’s schedule.

If there’s a subject or presenter you think would fit our model, or if you’d like to speak at one of our monthly meetings, please join us and pitch the idea! We’re nothing without the voices of the Death Positive community, and we’d love to add your voice to our sometimes off key choir.

We can’t promise that we’ll have time in our calendar for every suggested topic but we’re ready to listen.

https://www.facebook.com/events/564040657369073/

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Compassion Fatigue with Hobart

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Sunday, 18th November 2018
6pm.
Full information/RSVP: https://www.facebook.com/events/2336546189960204

Hobart Frolley is an artist and Vet Nurse at the Philadelphia SPCA who has been working in animal welfare since 2003. Throughout their years of experience they have become aware of the condition known in the animal care world as Compassion Fatigue, which is sometimes referred to in other fields as “Secondary Traumatic Stress.” This presentation will cover what Compassion Fatigue is, its warning signs, and ways to prevent and/or manage it. Due to the large number of people in the Death Positive community working in direct care fields, this is a vitally important topic to discuss and explore.

 

DPP HALLOWEEN 2018!

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Attention fellow mortals! It’s PARTY TIME! The season to let our funeral flag fly is finally upon us, and make no mistake: we are pulling out all the stops this year!

Raise a glass to your inevitable death and decay with Death Party Philadelphia!

FEATURING:

· Spooky RocknRoll beats by DJ Sonny Blood
· Costume contest (PRIZES)
· Next level raffle basket with luxurious goodies to die for
· Photo booth
· KARAOKE!
· And duh, beverages of all sorts available for purchase from
our ever-generous hosts at the Bike Stop

All proceeds from this year’s party will benefit the Greater Philadelphia Funeral Consumer’s Alliance, the Philly chapter of a national nonprofit dedicated to protecting the funeral rights of individuals and families. So bring all your friends*

https://www.facebook.com/events/483741888792860/
*Party is 21+ with proper ID.

 

Dark Tourism with Connor

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Dark Tourism is defined as tourism involving traveling to places and events associated with death. From the coliseums in Rome, to the small town of Salem, Massachusetts, there is something that makes us want to visit places where something “dark” has happened. We’ve even created a Netflix original documentary series to help fill this need.

This presentation will dive into what exactly dark tourism is, why we as a largely death-phobic population feel drawn to visit these places, and what this increase of visitors means for local communities and their culture. All are welcome to come listen and encouraged to participate with experiences and opinions.

-Connor


On Sunday, September 23rd, please join our featured presenter, Connor, as he walks us through the ins and outs of death related tourism. Doors open at 6pm. Event RSVP can be found here: https://www.facebook.com/events/343782049498997/

 

Connor Michalchuk has been a member of DPP since August 2017. By day, he manages a small boutique selling natural skincare and fragrances, and by night he’s a glamorous burlesque star and comedian. This will be his first presentation at DPP and he looks forward to sharing it with you.

Screening & Discussion with Michelle Lasota

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On Sunday, July 29th, please join us for a screening of, “The Nurse with the Purple Hair,” and discussion immediately following with the documentary subject and DPP friend, Michelle Lasota.

Our Facebook event page has more information:
https://www.facebook.com/events/648605652155956/


About, “The Nurse with the Purple Hair,” and Michelle herself:

“The Nurse with the Purple Hair is a warm and inspiring documentary about end-of-life care. The film features hospice nurse Michelle Lasota and is directed by world-renowned filmmaker Sean Cunningham. The film honors hospice professionals and the mind-body-spirit services they provide.”

Michelle graduated as an RN in 2003. When Michelle’s father died unexpectedly in 2004, she was working as a surgical nurse at Cedars-Sinai in Los Angeles. She returned to Philadelphia and switched to hospice nursing. She says: “It was a personal healing journey. For me, everything that I didn’t get to do for my dad I was now doing for all of these other people. So it was really important to me.”

Michelle serves as a level 3 RN on her hospice unit, and as preceptor to nursing students to newly hired employees. In 2010 she received a UPHS nursing excellence award in recognition of Nurse/Patient-Family Relationships.

Michelle makes her home in Philadelphia. She has two little boys.

For more information please visit:
https://www.thenursewiththepurplehair.com/

Death and Disability

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June 24th, 2018 @ 06:00pm.

Could the fear of death be at the root of our culture’s discomfort with bodies that are deemed sick, unhealthy, or “disabled?”

Furthermore, who decides which bodies are “normal” and which need to be cured in the first place? In this presentation, Kelly Crodian-Shuff will use a disability studies framework to argue that the stigma attached to perceived disabilities is a direct consequence of our death-phobic society, and that by accepting the bodily limitations of ALL people, can we create a more compassionate and inclusive world.

Snacks provided; discussion to follow!

For more information, please RSVP on Facebook. 

August Meet: Where do we go when we die?

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Where do we go when we die? While world religions have their own version of where the soul goes when we die, this multi-media presentations curated by DPP member Shawn Porter takes a humorously visceral approach to strange and unusual destinations for the corpse, touching on such cheerful topics as human taxidermy, incorruptibles and religious cannibalism.

And there’ll be snacks.

Doors will be closed at 6:30 on Sunday August 26th, so please do your best to be on time. (which means early)

https://www.facebook.com/events/179017749424004 for more information.

 

 

Cemetery Symbolism: A Ghouls Guide

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The semiotics of the bone orchard will be the subject of our May meeting- this time as a group  field trip to the Laurel Hill Cemetery.  DPP founding member John Haldeman will giving a short presentation on symbols commonly found on headstones, followed by a scavenger hunt to see what symbols we can find at Laurel Hill.

We’ll be meeting at the main entrance of the park around 2pm;
Laurel Hill Cemetery
3822 Ridge Ave.
Philadelphia, PA 19132

In the case of inclement weather we’ll be meeting at our usual location for John’s presentation and maybe a movie.

https://www.facebook.com/events/247424849159325/

(Special thanks to the Laurel Hill Cemetery for allowing our group to meet up on their grounds. You can find out more information on supporting LHC here: https://thelaurelhillcemetery.org/support)

Death & Taxes

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In honor of National Healthcare Decisions Day*, come work on your advance healthcare decision documents with Death Party Philadelphia. Whether you need a few witnesses to finalize your living will or you’ve just decided that having your end of life healthcare wishes organized is important, this open workshop is here to support you.

There is no formal presentation so just bring your documents in whatever state they’re in and any questions you would like to discuss. See you on the 15th!

https://www.facebook.com/events/1919814578329825/

*About National Healthcare Decisions Day:
National Healthcare Decisions Day (NHDD) exists to inspire, educate and empower the public and providers about the importance of advance care planning. NHDD is an initiative to encourage patients to express their wishes regarding healthcare and for providers and facilities to respect those wishes, whatever they may be.

Dying in Pennsylvania

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The laws around the end of life and death are very specific to the state, and sometimes city, in which they occur. In this month’s meet we’ll cover what legislation is in place here in Pennsylvania and Philadelphia if applicable. Feel free to bring any documents you currently have in place or are working on!

https://www.facebook.com/events/205889540160891/?notif_t=plan_user_invited&notif_id=1521174248298750

About Julia:
Julia Porter has been plagued by death anxiety for as long as she can remember. After discovering the good work being done by the death positive community she felt a great sense of empowerment knowing howmuch control we actually have around the way we die. She is now passionate about creating space for death related discussions and information sharing through her work as a founding member of Death Party Philadelphia. Julia is a Human Resources professional in Philadelphia where she lives with her husband and fellow Death Party member, Shawn, and their animal companions Bailey and Ron.